We all encounter dark days as we take this journey through life. Sometimes we feel as though we just can’t take any more. It is during this time that you have to keep pushing, even if you don’t see the point.
The point is that this is the ebb and flow of life. Nobody escapes the roller coaster effect. Sometimes you are traveling down a path and something happens to force a fork in the road. Decision time. Sometimes you reach a corner, and there seems to be a signpost. One side says “Your Life Now”, and the other says “No Longer an Option”.
Sometimes you walk through a door, then turn back only to find the door is locked. Okay… enough gloomy examples. What I want to you remember is that, no matter what, keep putting one foot in front of the other. There is a light, and you will find it. But you must keep moving forward.
If you feel as though this doesn’t apply to you, and that you’ve got everything figured out, more power to you! Most people who I’ve met will struggle from time to time. Tell us the secret in the comments section of this post. I have these dark days too. I’m not saying I have everything dialed in. I’m just sharing what I’ve learned in the hopes that it will help you.
I think the critical issue is faith. I don’t necessary mean faith in God, or in a higher being, although that will work well. Let’s call it the faith that things will work out exactly like they’re supposed to. We can all agree that it’s hard to know whether something is a blessing or a curse until you’re on the other side of it. Sometimes you never find out.
If you are a person that prays, how many times have you caught yourself praying, “Here’s my problem, God, and here’s how you need to fix it!” We run into trouble when we assume that we know the big picture. That’s impossible for anyone to know, as our lives are revealed to us bit by bit, not on a big map or relevant timeline.
Yes, make goals for yourself. Yes, have dreams and work towards fulfilling them. Give yourself that sense of direction. But, for every disappointment, or setback you perceive, have faith and keep it going, step by step. If you see that someone else has stumbled, pick them up and remind them to keep going. Offer encouragement where you can. There are plenty of opportunities to go around.
Accept encouragement from others. You deserve it.
Keep it going!