Emotions run strong for a lot of people during the holidays. A lot of anxiety centers around getting people just the right gift. Along with that goes the pressure to spend a lot of money. This will supposedly prove how much the recipient means to gift giver. Sometimes, this expectation is there, whether you can afford it or not.
I’ve scaled back quite a bit from my younger days. What I’ve found out is that shopping early with a plan and a budget makes the holidays less stressful. What I’ve also learned is that it’s the same Christmas. It doesn’t matter if you spend $50 or $500 per person. The enjoyment of the holiday is the same. Except that you don’t have the January hangover after the December spending binge.
I cringe when I see young people at work fretting over buying a $2000 bag, for someone who they’ve been dating a couple of months. It’s sad when we have to buy someone a gaming system, and a ton of games to prove our love. A big screen TV always screams I LOVE YOU!
I think what bothers me the most are the car commercials. Just about all the auto manufacturers that run these this time of year. I know you’ve seen the Lexus with the red bow on it. This is so disheartening. It’s a small percentage of the population that can afford to buy a brand new luxury car for a Christmas gift. Sure, some people can do it, but should they? Why do car companies have the nerve to put this kind of pressure on people? It’s sad, in my opinion.
Where does the Christmas spirit figure in here? What does this holiday even mean anymore? I’m sticking to my strategy. I’m thinking about the person I’m buying for. I’m considering their interests and their passions, and buying each person on my list a heartfelt gift or two. I’m not breaking the bank, or going into debt to do it. I shouldn’t have fall into financial trouble for anyone to know that I love them.
I hope you find something fun to do together, see some cool Christmas lights, and have a nice meal with loved ones. I have a friend that hands out purses filled with personal items to homeless women on Christmas morning. That’s her tradition. I’m not that awesome, but it warms my heart to know she does it.
The holidays are hard for folks that have lost someone. Don’t feel awkward about giving them a hug and some encouragement. It’s a rough time of year for lots of people. You don’t have to buy them a luxury car, just shine a little of your light on them, so it’s not so dark in their life.