It’s hard work, being brave. I love this quote, because it’s so true. We do think of Braveheart, or war heroes, and even Merida in the movie BRAVE. We do think of people without fear, being strong and living their lives, no matter what gets hurled at them.
The truth is, we’re all scared. Of all kinds of things. Some people seem scared. Some people seem brave. But none of us get out of this life without some hurt, frustration, and self-doubt.
I saw an ad on Facebook… I know, shocker, huh? It’s advertising jewelry to promote awareness of mental health issues, particularly depression and suicide. I’m thinking about getting this piece of jewelry. Because it’s a great cause, and we could use some dialogue.
But really… I want it because on it are the words Be Brave. I want it to remind me everyday that you’ve got to be brave. You’ve got to process and deal with whatever crosses your path. We all need reminding from time to time.
When I think of some of the cancer survivors that I know, I am overwhelmed at how brave they are. When you lose someone close to you, it takes bravery to get through the following days. For some people, getting out of bed in the morning is an act of bravery. I would say that on the bravery challenge sliding scale, I’m someone there in the middle.
Another quote on bravery that really got to me:
“Be Brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.” – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
That’s true, though. By the time you convince others that you are brave, you have almost convinced yourself!
I love the complexity of humans. Two things strike me in particular:
- How resilient we are
- How fragile we are
What makes the difference between bending and breaking?
The ability to say “Is that all you’ve got to throw at me, life?” The fine art of planning your next bold move while the walls are falling down. Being a phoenix.
I feel as though I’ve been more cautious than brave as I moved through life. I’ve paid the price for that too. Some people do see me as brave. I hope I’ve got them fooled, since that means I’m on my way to actually being brave!